What Get Married, The Knot and Martha Stewart Weddings don’t want you to know
Friday, May 21st, 2010This week at the National Stationery Show (“NSS”) a colleague of mine told me that the Editor of Get Married, an online wedding website, was going to visit a bricks-and-mortar stationery store and find out what actually goes on when someone seeks advice on wedding invitations. I was intrigued: gosh, will a “real world” experience get in the way of shamelessly promoting the same monotonous and tedious designs from online resellers? Sceptical, but willing to give Get Married the benefit of the doubt, I trekked over to their booth at the back of Javits Center to see if they had made any relevant improvements to their website.
I came across an enthusiastic young woman explaining the benefits of advertising on Get Married to two stationers. As they were wrapping up, I jumped in and asked: Will I be able to find a “real” stationery store on your website? Using Connecticut as an example (my home state), I asked to see if they had any stores listed under invitations?

As I suspected, the only “local” stores you can find are “national” online resellers. I think most people are savvy enough to know the difference between a business that sells “nationally” online and a local store, why can’t Get Married see the difference? Despite the fact that wedding sites like The Knot, Martha Stewart Wedding and Get Married like to hype the local shopping experience, local relevance is determined solely by how much advertising dollars you are prepared to spend to “buy” local space.
I explained to the young salesperson, that I considered this to be a deceptive promotion and it was causing people searching for local resources to move away from wedding portals. She promised to bring this to the attention of her superiors. Fortunately, I believe that mobile search will eventually kill these relics of self-promotion and deceptive claims whose primary interests are selling advertising and generating affiliate income. Information from these websites is little more than promtional hype. Let the buyer beware.
If you are an independent stationer thinking you will benefit from these websites, think again. The money you spend on online marketing is far better spent promoting your own website and engaging in local search optimization.
Richard W. May
Thérèse Saint Clair

