How to chose a wedding invitation
Sunday, January 17th, 2010As a stationery store with an online presence, we receive many requests for a catalogue or samples of wedding invitations. Visitors are surprised that Thérèse Saint Clair has no catalogue nor do we send out “sample” wedding invitations. Usually these visitors to our website come to understand that there is more to selecting a wedding invitation than looking at paper samples or limiting oneself to a few designs in an catalogue or online store. Let me explain why.
Like most of the fine stationers found on the Stationers Guild website, we represent many excellent design companies and printers. In the case of Thérèse Saint Clair, we represent over 60 companies that print wedding invitations; each of whom has their own unique style or designs, custom printing process and papers. It would be presumptious of me to select sample designs for someone I have never met without having the benefit of a conversation and, most likely, a meeting to discuss their requirements, budget and style preferences. If there is one piece of advice I can give prospective bridal couples, it is this: If you decide to purchase a wedding invitation from a catalogue or online be prepared to be disappointed. The outcome is unlikely to meet your expectations. Let me show you why.
My responsibility as a stationer is to help my client select a wedding invitation and reply card set that reflects their preferences and design features – not my own! For instance, I find Vera Wang wedding invitations to be particularly stylish in that they seemlessly incorporate many of Vera’s latest fabric designs into the actual invitation itself as shown below:
While this is obviously a very striking invitation ensemble, the colors, the paper and, indeed, even the elaborate styling may not appeal to you. For instance, you may be more attracted to the classic simplicity of Crane & Co.’s classic wedding invitations or, perhaps, the bold designs of Oblation’s letterpress wedding invitations.
Imagine the complications of being faced with samples from over 60 companies: Your head would likely be spinning. There is a tendency for people to throw up their hands in frustration at the seemingly endless number of choices. Nevertheless, working with an experienced stationer can often help narrow down the viable choices fairly quickly. There is a distinct advantage to working with an experienced stationer who has many samples of custom invitations, printed ink colors and paper swatches to help insure that your printed invitation meets your expectations. This is simply not possible in the online world where low image resolutions distort ink colors and, most certainly, don’t begin to pick up the subtle textures of paper and their different weights.
The Stationers Guild has hyperlinks to many fine paper companies who sell wedding invitations. Some of these printing companies sell online, but many do not. Let these designers and craftspeople tell you their story in their own words and see samples of their great designs. While this is a useful way to do your research, there is no substitute to visiting a qualified stationer in your neighborhood. While Guild member stores may not carry all the lines shown on our website, spending an hour with an experienced stationer will help point you in the right direction and will probably save you both money and many hours of frustration.
Sheila P. May
Thérèse Saint Clair







